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The decision to divorce is never easy. You may be concerned about how to go about starting divorce proceedings or worried about whether the children will live with you after your divorce or whether you will be able to stay in the family home.

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Divorce Frequently Asked Questions

What are the grounds for divorce?

The only ground for divorce is that your marriage has irretrievably broken down. With the introduction of no-fault divorce proceedings, you no longer need to give reasons for your divorce, such as adultery or unreasonable behaviour.

I have received a divorce application. What should I do?

If you receive a divorce application the best thing to do is speak to a specialist divorce lawyer. They can guide you through the divorce and help you negotiate parenting arrangements for your children and a financial settlement.

What are the stages of a divorce in the UK?

Our divorce guide breaks no-fault divorce proceedings into five stages :

  1. You apply for a divorce
  2. There is a wait of 20 weeks – this is a mandatory wait imposed by law
  3. After the 20-week wait you tell the court that you want to proceed with your divorce application
  4. The court considers your divorce paperwork and makes a conditional order of divorce. The conditional order used to be called decree nisi of divorce
  5. After a further six-week wait you apply for your final order of divorce. This used to be called the decree absolute of divorce

When you receive your final order of divorce you are no longer legally married to your husband or wife.

In no-fault divorce proceedings, you do not need to go to a court hearing to get divorced. Our divorce solicitors in London can help you with your divorce wherever you are based in England.

How long does a divorce take?

As there are court-imposed delays (the 20-week initial delay followed by a six-week delay between getting your conditional order of divorce and your final order ) a divorce takes about six months from the date you start divorce proceedings until you get your final order.

Although your divorce will take around six months to obtain you may be able to agree on the future parenting arrangements for your children or your financial settlement before you obtain your final divorce order. If your husband or wife is not willing to agree on child arrangements or a financial settlement it may take longer than six months to obtain a child arrangement order or financial court order from the court.

Our divorce lawyers can advise you on all the family law aspects of your separation and divorce. Our experts will try and help you reach an agreement on child custody, contact and financial settlement so you do not have the stress or expense of having to ask the court to make decisions on the future parenting arrangements for your children or on how assets should be divided up between you.

Should a husband or wife start the divorce proceedings?

In divorce proceedings, you can start the application, your spouse can do so or you can make a joint application to the divorce court.

As a general divorce guide, if you respond to a divorce application started by your husband or wife then it does not put you at a disadvantage if you subsequently have to ask the court to make a child arrangement order or a financial court order. However, there are reasons why you may prefer to start the divorce application:

  • You are in control of progressing the divorce proceedings – your spouse may delay progressing the divorce application or applying for the final order
  • You may need to apply for a financial court order urgently. For example, because you need spousal maintenance and your husband or wife will not pay it voluntarily or if you need to ask the court to make an injunction order to stop your spouse from transferring or selling off assets to reduce the amount that is available for the court to split between you
  • If there is more than one country where divorce proceedings could be started. It may be in your best interests that the divorce proceedings be started in England. For example, in some overseas countries, the foreign court will award you a lower financial settlement than the one you could reasonably have hoped to achieve if divorce proceedings had been started in England allowing you to then apply for a financial court order in England

If you do not live in England can you get divorced in England?

Potentially you can get divorced in England even if you do not live in England.

There are complex divorce jurisdiction rules for starting divorce proceedings in England. That is why it is vital to take advice from our divorce solicitors in London if there is the possibility that you could start the divorce in more than one country. For example, there may be more than one potential jurisdiction if one of you lives abroad, has foreign or dual nationality or property or links overseas.

The decision on where to start the divorce proceedings can have a massive impact on the financial settlement. It therefore pays to get the best specialist divorce advice before your husband or wife starts divorce proceedings in a jurisdiction that does not favour you.

If you are not a British citizen, can you get divorced in England?

Divorce proceedings can be started in England if one or both spouses are not British citizens.

Whether you can get divorced in England depends on a legal concept called habitual residence. It is sensible to take expert legal advice from a top London divorce solicitor on whether it is in your interests to start English no-fault divorce proceedings and the timing of any divorce application. This is important as the decisions you make about starting divorce proceedings could affect the amount of your financial settlement, your immigration status and any current or future immigration applications.

We cannot agree on a financial settlement so can we still get divorced?

You can get divorced even if you have not reached a financial settlement and decided on things such as:

  • Who will get the family home?
  • Should pensions be shared?
  • Will spousal maintenance be paid and for how long?
  • Should there be a clean break final order?

In some cases, the best advice from London divorce solicitors is to delay finalising the divorce proceedings until you have a financial settlement because of the potential financial prejudice of completing your divorce proceedings without a financial agreement or court order.

As the personal and financial circumstances of every family are different it is important to get specialist advice before the divorce proceedings are completed.

Can we get divorced if custody of the children is not agreed?

If a couple cannot agree on child custody or contact then either one of them can apply to court for a child arrangements order. The application can be made before, during or after the no-fault divorce proceedings are completed.

Our divorce solicitors in London can offer guidance on how best to reach an agreement over where your children will live or if there will be shared parenting or contact arrangements.

What happens financially when you get divorced?

When you divorce the court does not a financial order dividing your assets unless you either:

  • Jointly ask the court to make an agreed financial consent order or
  • One of you makes an application for a financial court order because you are not able to reach a financial settlement

Divorce solicitors can help you reach a financial settlement through solicitor negotiations or by providing legal support during family mediation. Our specialists can then help prepare the paperwork to obtain your agreed financial consent order. If you cannot reach an agreement, we can represent you by making or responding to a financial application.

How many years does it take to financially recover from divorce?

There is no getting away from the fact that a divorce can affect your finances as you will be splitting your assets with your husband or wife and creating two homes, though the financial court order will not necessarily involve an equal split of all the family assets.

It is difficult to generalise how long it takes to financially recover from a divorce as so much depends on your situation. After a short marriage, you may come out of the relationship in a better financial position than you went into it. After a long marriage, it may take time to rebuild your finances.

Our divorce solicitors will help you reach a financial settlement by negotiation to reduce the risks and expense of the protracted court proceedings so you can rebuild your life.

Get in touch with our divorce solicitors today

For divorce advice, you can see us at our offices, make a phone appointment or speak to us online via Web Conferencing such as Zoom or Skype. To get the expert legal advice you need, contact our divorce solicitors in London.

Your Questions and our answers about Divorce Guide

Despite your partner residing in the British Virgin Islands, you may still be able to initiate divorce proceedings in the UK given certain conditions. However, legal advice tailored to your situation is crucial. There are support networks and legal aid may be available to help guide you through this process, especially when it comes to child custody, financial support, and the divorce itself. For more information, please contact us on 02039599123 or click here 

If you’ve entered the UK on a dependent visa, the cancellation or withdrawal of a dependent visa isn’t a decision solely within the rights of the sponsor without valid grounds. While your spouse, as the sponsor, might have some influence over the visa status, demanding money or threatening to cancel your visa without justifiable reasons isn’t within their rights. The decision ultimately lies with the Home Office, and they may consider various factors when reviewing your application, including the reasons for your absences and your ties to the UK. For more information, please contact us on 02039599123 or click here 

You may be able to apply for an order such as a Specific Issue Order or a Prohibited Steps Order, that can address matters regarding children, including permission to take a child abroad. A Specific Issue Order is used to address a particular issue concerning a child’s upbringing when parents cannot agree, such as whether a child should travel abroad.

However, before applying for such an order, it’s advisable to attempt to reach an agreement with the other parent regarding the proposed travel plans. If an agreement cannot be reached and there are concerns or disagreements about taking the child abroad please contact us regarding the next steps on 02039599123 or click here 

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You do not mention if the family home is owned by your husband or is owned by you or in your joint names. If your husband owns the family home, it is important that you register a matrimonial homes right notice to protect your interests. The notice will expire with the decree absolute of divorce but can be extended if you have not reached a financial settlement or you can delay applying to finalise the divorce proceedings.

If you cannot reach agreement on whether you should continue to live in the family home then if one of you starts divorce proceedings then either one of you can start financial court proceedings and ask a judge to decide how your assets, including the family home, are split. When deciding on whether it is feasible for you to stay in the family home the court would look at a range of factors, including your housing needs and the options of the house being sold or transferred to you.

We would need more information about the family home and your other assets before being able to advise you on the likely financial settlement options , for example information on the equity in the family home as well as details of other investments.

You do need family law advice on starting divorce proceedings, the likely prospects of your staying at the family home and your financial settlement options. We would therefore ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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Although there are no children court orders in place to stop you from taking the children abroad (a prohibited steps order) the law says that if you take the children to Pakistan without the agreement of your former wife or a UK court order giving you permission to take the children abroad on holiday you are “abducting” the children .

You should therefore not take the children out of the UK without first getting the agreement of your former wife in writing to any planned trip or a court order giving you permission to take the children out of the UK for the purposes of a holiday.

It may be the case that your former wife is objecting to the trip for the children to see your parents if the children spent the whole summer in Pakistan last year? If that is the case you could agree that the children spend longer with her during the week or during other shorter school holidays or that the children will go to Pakistan every year but for say three or four weeks or on alternate years for the full summer holiday.

If you cannot resolve matters with your former wife then you will need advice on starting children court proceedings for an order to let you take the children to Pakistan. When deciding whether to make an order the court will look at what it considers to be in the best interests of your children.

You do need family law advice on taking your children abroad on holiday. We would therefore ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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Under current English divorce law you normally have to be married for at least one year before you can start divorce proceedings. You could separate from your husband now and get divorced in six months if you have the grounds to start divorce proceedings. We would need to speak with you to discuss whether you have the grounds to start divorce proceedings.

It is important that you are aware that you do not always need a spouse’s agreement to get a divorce. Agreement is only necessary if you start divorce proceedings based on two years separation with your spouse consenting to a divorce. There are other ways or grounds to get a divorce.

If you decide to separate now it may be sensible to sign a separation agreement. At the time of the divorce proceedings, the separation agreement could be converted into a financial court order to prevent either you or your husband making any further financial claims against one another.

If you are not a UK citizen, it is important that you take immigration law advice before you separate from your husband or start divorce proceedings. This is because your immigration status could be affected by the separation or divorce.

You do need family law advice on a separation agreement or divorce proceedings and your financial settlement options. We would therefore ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

Thank you for your enquiry. We are sorry to hear about the problems you are experiencing in seeing your children as much as you would like after your separation from your former partner.

If you cannot reach an agreement with your former partner over the amount of time the children should spend with you then you could apply to the court for a child arrangements order. This order is the new name for an access order or contact order. A child arrangements order will set out how much time the children should spend with you each week and can cover holiday contact as well.

When the court is deciding on an appropriate child arrangements order and contact the court will take into account the children’s wishes.

In relation to costs, the general rule is that a mother and father will pay their own legal costs of applying for a child arrangements order or responding to an application for a child arrangements order. It is very rare for in a children court case for a judge to order that one parent pays all or a share of the other parent’s legal fees. The conduct of one parent would need to be quite extreme for the court to consider making a costs order.

If you take legal advice, you may be able to agree an increase in contact with your children with your former partner through solicitor negotiations. That would avoid the need for a court application.

To discuss your situation and your children law options we would need to see you. We can give you expert children law advice and advise you on the best way forward and the cost of applying for a child arrangements order. Please call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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If you have decided to separate from your civil partner, you can apply to the family court to dissolve your civil partnership. Dissolving a civil partnership is like starting divorce proceedings, as it is a very similar court process.

Under current English family law, it is not possible to get a no fault divorce or dissolution of civil partnership. That means that in order to start dissolution of civil partnership proceedings you would need to prove one of a number of grounds to dissolve the civil partnership. We would need to meet you and discuss your situation in order to advise you on the relevant ground for the dissolution of your civil partnership.

When the court dissolves a civil partnership, the court also has the power, on the application of either civil partner, to make financial court orders. These orders can be made either by agreement or after a court hearing when the judge decides how family assets should be split. A judge can order the sale or transfer of property, cash or lump sum payments, pension sharing orders or maintenance.

It is important that you take legal advice on your financial settlement options and if civil partnership dissolution proceedings are started that you secure a financial court order. This is important as without a financial court order either you or your civil partner could bring future financial claims against one another.

You do need family law advice on your civil partnership dissolution and financial settlement options. We would therefore ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you. Please call us.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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Under current UK family law, a prenuptial agreement is not a legally binding document. That means the contents of a prenuptial agreement will not be automatically upheld by a divorce court should you marry your fiancée and subsequently divorce and financial court proceedings are started.

However, a well-prepared prenuptial agreement will carry weight with a divorce court when the court is considering what financial award to make in divorce and financial court proceedings. Therefore, it is important that you do sign a prenuptial agreement prior to your marriage to your fiancée.

If you marry without a prenuptial agreement in place, the divorce court could award your fiancée far more than the court would have done if a prenuptial agreement had been signed before the wedding.

In order for the prenuptial agreement to carry weight in any future divorce proceedings the agreement will need to be prepared well in advance of the wedding date and you will both need to take legal advice on the contents of the prenuptial agreement document. In your situation, there may also be jurisdiction issues.

The first step is to discuss what you would like to put in your prenuptial agreement. A solicitor can guide you on the options taking into account your personal and financial circumstances.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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If the house is owned in the sole name of your boyfriend then he is the legal owner. This could be changed as he could agree to transfer the property into your joint names. At the same time as the transfer of the property into joint names, the two of you could draw up a cohabitation agreement to set out the percentage of the equity in the house that you would each receive if you split up and the house is sold or transferred into your sole name or back into your boyfriend’s sole name. The percentage split in the cohabitation agreement could reflect the amount of equity in the property at the time of the transfer into joint names and the amount that you will both contribute towards the mortgage or home improvements.

If the property continues to be owned in your partner’s sole name, you could make a claim against the property if you split up and you can establish a ‘’beneficial interest ‘’ in the property. Alternatively, housing claims (known as schedule one claims) could be made if you have children together.

Whether the property is transferred into joint names or not a cohabitation agreement should be drawn up to avoid expensive court proceedings if you do split up. The cohabitation agreement should avoid arguments about the extent of your interest in the growth in equity in the property.

The family law team at OTS Solicitors can help you prepare a cohabitation agreement. Please call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you.

Please note the answer provided above is for information purposes only. It does not constitute legal advice. In order for OTS Solicitors to provide legal advice you would need to instruct OTS Solicitors family law team. If you would like to proceed with legal advice and consult with our family law solicitors please call us on 0203 959 9123.

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It is possible to start divorce proceedings without including your address in the divorce petition or in any of the court paperwork sent to your husband by the divorce court.

If you need to resolve financial claims, for example ownership of the family home or maintenance for yourself or a share of your husband’s pension, it is possible to start financial court proceedings without having to disclose your address to your husband.

If you have ongoing domestic violence or harassment concerns, you could also consider the option of applying to the family court for an injunction order. This type of court order is called a non-molestation injunction. The injunction order would prevent your husband from harassing you.

If you have children and are worried about their safety or welfare then the family court can also make orders to protect your children.

As you do need expert divorce advice we would ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment with a member of the family law team to discuss your divorce options and to see how we can help you.

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If your separation is amicable, you and your husband should talk about what you want to do with the joint savings account. If the separation is amicable and you take all the savings or half the money out of the joint savings account without first discussing your plans with your husband then this may make it harder to reach an agreed financial settlement.

As your savings account is a joint account, either you or your husband could take the savings from the bank account. In addition, if the account has an overdraft facility potentially either of you could take money out on overdraft. This means that if your separation is not amicable your husband could withdraw all the money. If money is taken out on overdraft then because the account is a joint one you and your husband are both jointly and severally liable for the whole of the overdraft.

Accordingly, if there are trust issues between you and your husband and you are worried that the account has an overdraft facility on it you could ask the bank to freeze the account. That means neither one of you could take any money out of the account nor use the overdraft facility until the account is unfrozen.

Whether you should take out money from the joint savings account depends on your detailed personal and financial circumstances. You should therefore take legal advice on your separation, including whether you are both going to continue living at the family home during the divorce proceedings and your financial settlement options. This discussion will help determine what steps you should take about the joint savings account, although if you fear that your husband will quickly withdraw the money without his discussing it first with you then you could chose to freeze the account to preserve the funds and then take legal advice.

You do need family law advice on starting divorce proceedings and your financial settlement options. We would therefore ask you to call us on 0203 959 9123 to arrange an appointment to discuss how we can help you. Please call us.

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